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Old 12-01-2020, 08:35 PM   #1
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Today was one of the worst days of my life and 2020 can not get any worse. My mom has passed away around 2 pm this afternoon at the age 86. About the first on November she was having some stomach/digestion issues and we found she had pancreatic cancer which had spread to her intestines also. With a strong will to live she was willing to go though chemo again (breast cancer 3 yrs ago which ended with a double mastectomy).

She had her first treatment week ago monday and did fairly well considering . Yesterday would have been her 2nd treatment but went to the ER with chest pains and was admitted into the ICU. Today they moved her to the CVI unit and visiting hours start at 1pm. The CVI unit only allows one visitor a day (one a day not one at a time) . So I waited for my sister to arrive at the hospital and gave her the visit. She went up and called me a few minutes later saying it was bad and they cleared me to come up.

We meet with the doctor and was told that she had several large blood clots in her lungs and she would pass soon. I got to talk to her , fully conscious and aware as I walked in she asked why I had a jacket and pants on (im in florida I wear shorts all the time) . I said a cold front moved in and it was 50 out , her reply S*it , the h*ll with that. In a lot of pain they gave her a shot of morphine ,as she was wake for another 10 mins or so we said our goodbyes . My sister and I both holding a hand as she fell asleep we watched the heart monitor fall to zero and she was gone. With covid running rampid I thank god this is one person that didnt die alone.
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Old 12-01-2020, 08:40 PM   #2
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Prayers Swan. So sorry for your loss.
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Old 12-01-2020, 08:54 PM   #3
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So, so sorry for you loss Swan. I'll keep you and yours in my prayers.
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Old 12-01-2020, 09:11 PM   #4
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So sorry for your loss Swan. You will be in our prayers.
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Old 12-01-2020, 09:56 PM   #5
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Sorry for your loss Swan. I lost my father in April so I understand. We were not allowed in.
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Old 12-01-2020, 10:03 PM   #6
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Prayers for you and yours. She not in any pain now.
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Old 12-01-2020, 10:35 PM   #7
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Prayers for your mother, you and the whole family. It’s a blessing you and your sister where there with her in her final moments.


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Old 12-01-2020, 11:08 PM   #8
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Dang Swan, very sorry buddy.... My deepest condolences to you and the family.
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Old 12-01-2020, 11:33 PM   #9
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I am so sorry, Swan. It was a blessing you were able to be with her and talk with her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sister.
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So sorry for your loss, prayers for you and your family.
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